Renny Doyle • March 19, 2024

Winners Focus on Winning: Why Drama is a Side Hustle You Don't Need

Winners Focus on Winning: Why Drama is a Side Hustle You Don't Need

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Let's face it, it’s easy to get sucked into drama and gossip. A juicy tidbit about someone's life can feel like a mini-vacation from our own. But here's the thing: winners – the people who are truly crushing their goals and living fulfilling lives – don't get sucked into that crap. They're too busy winning to get tangled up in other people's business.


Drama is a Time Suck

Think about it. Every minute you spend dissecting someone else's situation is a minute stolen from pursuing your own. Winners understand that time is their most valuable asset. They invest it in things that move the needle forward in their own lives, not focusing on the lives of others.


Gossip Breeds Negativity

Negativity is contagious. When you engage in gossip, you're surrounding yourself with negativity. Winners, on the other hand, cultivate a positive mindset. They focus on solutions, growth, and inspiration. This positive energy fuels their drive and keeps them moving forward.


Winners Build Bridges

Gossip often involves taking sides and alienating people. Winners, however, understand the power of building relationships. They focus on connecting with others in a genuine way, knowing that a strong network can be a valuable asset on the road to success.


So, how do you ditch the drama? Here are a few tips:

  1. Be mindful of your conversations. Is the topic propelling you forward, or just rehashing old drama? Steer the conversation towards inspiring topics or goals.
  2. Focus on your circle. Surround yourself with positive, supportive people who uplift you and challenge you to be your best self.
  3. Practice gratitude. Take time each day to appreciate the good things in your life. Gratitude fosters a positive mindset that fuels success.


Remember, winners are laser-focused on their goals. They don't waste time on drama and gossip. Now, go out there and win!

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